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Title: When the TIGHTS Don't Fit - Cause, not all HEROES have SIX-PACK Abs

See "Published Works" section below for synopsis of this book.

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If you have your own story to tell about doing something heroic in spite of the feelings that you didn't measure up to the task, or if you know a hero accomplishing something great that didn't/doesn't fit the hero profile, send me the story for possible inclusion. You can use the "Shout Mail" link here at my profile to send it to my "Shoutlife Inbox", or you can email me at stanleffewatcomcastdotnet.



------PROFILE BEGINS:-------
Being a firm believer that what we ELEVATE becomes what we CELEBRATE, I am passionate about elevating home and family life.

I am the loving husband of my wonderful wife Jessica, the proud father of three very special little wonders, Zachary, Selah, and our newest addition to the Leffew family, Alexander.

A few years back, I became concerned about the voices crying out to be heard in our world. Knowing that my own children will have to listen to the voices crying out the loudest as they grow, I decided to be proactive and add my own voice to the mix.

Concerned that the message being elevated in our world made relationships more about the nighttime than the lifetime, I proactively decided to engage these voices and wrote the e-book, "How To Be Wanted For a Lifetime of Nights and Not Just a Night of a Lifetime."

ABOUT THE E-BOOK
This e-book is not just a celebration of marriage and family life, it is an antidote for the lead-with-the-body focus so many grapple with today. It, like any other book, is not the holy grail of relationship books that renders any other book unnecessary. By design, it doesn't cover things like conflict resolution, anger management, personality differences or finances. Volumes of books have been written on these subjects.

What it is designed to do is ELEVATE and CELEBRATE lifetime relationships by showcasing the beauty of LEGACY and the value of a PROMISE. It is designed to be a voice against the night of a lifetime messages and lead-with-the-body influences of our world.

ABOUT MY MISSION
As stated, a passion was birthed in me a few years back to add my own voice to the mix of voices my children (and others) will have to give an ear to in society. I have raised my voice ever since through my website, e-books and newsletter.

My mission is threefold in its purpose.

1: Elevate the Ideal - What we elevate becomes what we celebrate. Culturally, we celebrate the URGE more than the MERGE. Wherever our treasure is, that's were our hearts are also.

2: Eliminate the Imitation - Cheap imitations abound, and I am eliminating those imitations by comparisons. A night of a lifetime doesn't even come close to being wanted for a lifetime, and relationships established on the "tune in" rather than the "turn on" approach have the proper foundation for life and relational enrichment.

3: Embrace the Identifiable: When it comes to life, love and relationships, we are designed for desire, but we also desire for design. The human heart longs to connect. This is what God, the Creator of relationships, designed the heart to identify with. The identification of our nature is ultimately only realized as we embrace God's design for relationships.

My wife and I consistently ask our little girl where she is beautiful. She always responds, "In my heart and in my words." Knowing that external beauty is elevated all around the world, I wrote my second e-book, "Beauty Also Wears Clothes - 101 Reflections On Becoming What Others LOOK FOR in Life and Relationships, Not Just What They LOOK AT." This e-book helps build into life and relationships beauty marks that make one irresistible in life and love from the inside out.