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Online Status: Last On: Jan 20, 2010 - 3:16 AM
Profile Views: 16,788
Age / Gender: 42 / Female
Member Since: September 3, 2007
Location: somewhere in, VA
Website: http://members.tripod.com/morningglorycafe/
ShoutLife Address: shoutlife.com/SharlaCC
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3:11 PM is now friends with Lincoln Brewster
General Interests
writing, art, music, the ocean, a star filled sky, long drives in the country =) and of course, my family! I'm also interested in learning more about dyslexia and connecting with those who either have it or are raising children who do. I've started a new group called Understanding Dyslexia. Please join if you are interested. Connecting with other moms who are raising boys without dads, and other military widows.
Music
Listen to my play list. gives a general idea:
Books
Ragamuffin Gospel by Brennan Manning
Movies/TV
Not much of a TV Watcher. Occasionally watch shows with the boys like Drake and Josh! LOL I'm just a big kid at heart. I enjoy watching Discovery Channel, History Channel and the Science Channel. *Movies* A Few Good Men,The Fugitive, In the Line of Fire, The Net, National Treasure, Guarding Tess, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Over The Hedge, Pirates 1 and 3,The Patriot, Facing The Giants, too many to name. =)




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About Me
Sharla Chachere Costelow
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Welcome to my profile. I am starting this page as a ministry to encourage and inspire others. It will also serve as an outlet for my writing.

My Testimony:

I lost my husband a little over 7 years ago in the terrorist attack on the USS Cole in the port of Aden, Yemen. I have been raising boys on my own, and I know I could not have come as far as I have without God in my life.

I gave my life to Christ at the age of 5. Though I continued in church all my life, one day I woke up and realized my relationship with God was not where it should be. In the summer of 1998, I rededicated my life to God.

In 2006, I finally returned to college. That is on hold once again, but when God opens the right doors, I will earn my degree in communications - TV/Film.

Who Am I? Well... since I often tend to relate my life to words from a song... I leave you with the words that describe me best...

"No More No Less" by Mercy Me

I'm not trying to hide anything
I wear it on my sleeve
I wear it on my sleeve
I'm not trying to be something I'm not
This is all I've got
This is all I've got
I'm not trying to re-invent the wheel
Just trying to be real
Trying to be real
I'm not trying to say follow me
I'm not the one who leads
I'm not the one who leads

Let me introduce myself to you
This is who I am
No more, no less
I am just a (woman)who understands
Because of You I'm blessed
No more, no less

I'm not trying to prove anything
It's all about the change
It's all about the change

I hope you stare just long enough to see
The heart that's beating here inside of me
Beyond all the things you may think you know
I'm just a kid trying to make it home, that's it
No more, no less
Lord, I want to go home
Nothing more, nothing less







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Delerious? - History Maker

Interesting as I read the title of this song. Rich became a history maker and left this world in the arms of Jesus. I want to share this video because we had gone to Kings Fest that summer before Rich died. (2000) Delerious was a band that I had not yet seen in concert, and I was so looking forward to it. There's a long story that I won't share here... but Rich and Dillon ended up watching Delerious without me... and it was exactly what God had intended. You see, without me there, he felt completely uninhibited. Dillon later told me that they were jumping up and down! LOL When they walked towards me, Rich said... "Why didn't you ever have me listen to THEM before!" (I had been trying to get him to my Christian music.) I replied.."I did!" LOL That summer was a very important part of God pulling Rich closer to him.


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MercyMe - So Long Self





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Cole Memorial 09-16-07 (20), Mom and Dad (1), My Boys (23), My Pics (18), Pictures of Rich (9), Snow Day (9), USS Cole Pics (2), VA/MD Trip - Oct. 12th Weekend (27)
Blog
Pro Choice? - A Woman's Reflection   1/05/2009 - 8:29 PM
Pro Choice? - A Woman's Reflection by Sharla Chachere Costelow (login or sign up to read more)
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Sleepwalking in America   11/04/2008 - 12:00 AM
I waited until too late to get this in before tomorrow's deadline, so I am posting on my blogs instead. Please keep in mind this is an opinion article. I don't expect everyone to agree... and in fact, I know that many won't. I just ask that readers t... (login or sign up to read more)
36 views - 2 replies - Most Recent Reply: 12/03/08 - 1:24 AM
Writing for MyFriendDebbie.com ~Check it Out~   10/20/2008 - 4:35 AM
Be looking for the story I just finished tonight... Gift of Legacy! Sharla at MyFriendDebbie.com (login or sign up to read more)
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Political Thoughts from a USS Cole Widow   9/05/2008 - 6:06 PM
I have remained quiet during this presidential race. I have wanted to get to know more about the candidates and wait to hear what each has had to say. I am the kind of person who refuses to accept labels. I am not a Republican or a Democrat... I am a... (login or sign up to read more)
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I'm on Facebook   7/06/2008 - 5:39 PM
Just letting my ShoutLife friends know that I'm on Facebook now. =) Sharla on Facebook (login or sign up to read more)
39 views - 9 replies - Most Recent Reply: 07/08/08 - 3:44 AM
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Recent Guestbook Comments (7)  
Lisa Buffaloe on 3/17/10 - 2:37 PM
Hey girl! I hope you have a wonderful, wonderful Birthday!

BIG Birthday blessings and a HUGE cyber-hug!
YourChristianTools.com/LayoutsComments on 3/02/10 - 10:51 AM
Isaiah 53:5 (New Living Translation)

5 But he was pierced for our rebellion,
crushed for our sins.
He was beaten so we could be whole.
He was whipped so we could be healed.

Jesus is amazing!
Have a great day!
Andrea :-)
CHRIS MEDWAY - Kids Praise Songs on 2/07/10 - 6:16 PM
Hi Sharla, I've not written in a while. Hope you're well. It's a shame that shoutlife delete guestbook comments after 6 months as I can't find past messages!

What are you doing now - is the college degree happening?

I think I recall you being interested in my music in the past and you might be interested to know that I've just released a CD "All Aboard the Heaven Express" which is aimed mostly at kids but adults to enjoy as well. If you like you can preview it on my website www.chrismedway.com. I would love to know what you think - and please sign on to my newsletter if you like.

It'd be good to hear from you on what you're up to.

Blessings
Chris
www.chrismedway.com
Gary Revel on 1/28/10 - 10:46 PM


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Catherine on 12/23/09 - 7:27 AM
'Tis a Season of Joy! *smiles*
Merry Christmas! *Smiles*



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